28 Questions…to Avoid Wasting Time with ‘Mr. Almost Right’

Have you ever wasted years in a relationship with ‘Mr. Almost Right‘? Avoid it by asking yourself the right questions.
I once dated an amazing guy for 6 months. I should have ended things with Matt after the first couple dates, but he was so wonderful!

There are lots of good relationships that aren’t toxic, yet, you aren’t meant to be in them. We go back and forth for months (even years) before leaving. 

Often, the challenge is that you and your partner have a core value or two that you don’t share, BUT everything else is great. (That’s what keeps us second-guessing.)

This isn’t about being picky, it’s about honestly acknowledging what is truly important to you.
A high value woman considers her most important core values, then asks the right questions.

28 Values Questions to Avoid Wasting Time with the Wrong Partner: 

Mr. Almost Right Is Just Around the Corner Two things to keep in mind:

1. When asked directly, anyone can say, “I value that.” Instead, ask yourself these questions (about the person you’re dating) after conversations and spending time together.
TIP: You can bring up topics around the value that allow them to talk without feeling interrogated.

2. This is not exhaustive, nor will it list all your values. It’s a selection of common ones gathered from women I’ve mentored in 70+ countries.
Some will resonate with you, others won’t. That’s fine. Just select those that resonate, and add those that aren’t on the list.

Generosity
Q: Do you regularly give a part of your income to a church, organization or those in need?

Loving Relationships
Q: Do you enjoy spending your time, energy and resources on your mate, friends and family?

Adventure
Q: Do you appreciate new and thrilling experiences? Travel?

Humor
Q: Do you love to laugh and see the lighter side of things?

Authenticity
Q: Do you value saying and doing what is true to who you are?

Knowledge
Q: Do you set a high value on learning and contributing information?

*Most of the ladies I work with are highly educated and desire a partner who values the same.

Religious Commitment
Q: Do you have a faith? Do you cherish a relationship with your Creator? What spiritual principles to do you live by?

Fame
Q: Do you enjoy being recognized and known by others?
There's this Hollywood actress. Her husband had to be okay with taking a back seat to the attention she gets. (Many relationships end because the non-famous partner can’t handle the attention…or lack thereof).

Financially Responsible
Q: Do you value living within your means, paying bills on time, saving regularly and creating financial security?

Fun
Q: Do you love to be playful, entertain others or clown around? (Do you like entertaining at home or not?)

Service
Q: Do you enjoy helping others? How, exactly?

Peace
Q: Do you cherish times of tranquility without conflict or chaos?

Order
Q: Do you value a clean, orderly environment with systematic arrangement of things?

Respect
Q: Do you appreciate accepting and honoring each person?

Stability
Q: Do you treasure a balanced life with little change or upheaval?

Security
Q: Do you appreciate freedom from danger or worry?

Spirituality
Q: Do you value the spiritual aspects of our being? Are you growing spiritually?

Trust
Q: Do you love people who are reliable and who keep their word?

Career
Q: Do you consider your work or profession as very valuable? What do you aspire to accomplish? When?

Wealth
Q: Do you love to have an abundance of money, possessions and/or property?

Challenges
Q: Do you appreciate confronting a demanding or difficult problem?

Independence
Q: Do you love to be free from depending or relying on others?

Fitness
Q: Do you like to be physically in shape and strong? How do you like to do so? How often?

Adaptability
Q: Do you appreciate the ability to adjust to changing circumstances with ease?

Humility
Q: Do you like to be modest, unassuming or unpretentious?

Leisure
Q: Do you appreciate taking time regularly to relax and just doing what you want?

Ambition
Q: Do you value hard work, advancement and improvement?

Solitude
Q: Do you like to have time and space to be alone? How much time? How often?

Men will tell you a lot if you just listen. They will show you even more if you observe.

This is about you getting to know him. The real him. It’s the best way to avoid wasting precious time with someone who is not right for you.

One last piece of advice…

Don’t let others tell you what’s right for you. Something that is trivial to one woman can be unbearable to another.

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