Men are attracted to the physical first because it is simply in their DNA, however, for a man to develop a long term attraction it has to be more than physical.
Most high quality men want to be in a committed relationship, counter to what many women think, but they are slower to choose and commit to one woman than most women would like.
1. Insecurity
A quality man wants a confident woman who can hold her own in nearly all situations without him having to take care of her every whim and need. Insecurity is annoying and it turns him off.
2. Demanding
Men have many demands placed upon them each day, and a tremendous amount of input coming at them so the last thing a man wants is a woman blowing up his phone or constantly demanding her needs be met. If he is focused on a need of his own he will not be able to shift his attention to the woman’s current demand.
3. Drunk is Ugly
This is important ladies, drunk is ugly. It is usually when a woman’s “crazy” is exposed. Getting trashed is not sexy, it doesn’t make a woman look cool or make her more fun and nor is it excusable the next day. Never should a woman have her man to think of her as a sloppy mess.
4. Threats
Many women are hell-bent on getting their way without any thought for how their man feels. When a woman has an issue with her man and he doesn’t behave how she wants, threatening him with an ultimatum is only going to push him further way. Men prefer women who are in control of themselves, not controlling of him.
5. Assuming commitment
Many women think sex means chemistry which means he’s committed or is going to commit. Unless a man is verbally telling a woman he is committed, he is not. A woman’s best bet is not to have sex too soon and let the man pursue exclusivity before the relationship is taken that next level.
6. Sex can turn him off
Desperately acting out in a sexual way makes a man see a woman as unworthy, to have low self-worth and to possess little to no self-respect. If a woman has to use sex to keep her position or to gain her position she never held a solid position to begin with. Keep your panties on.
7. Arrogant
A woman who needs to bring out her resume and list of accolades to constantly impress and man and/or his friends will turn a man off. When she needs to be the center of attention to feel he and his friends are impressed with her, she will soon be seen as unimpressive and annoying.
Sherapy Advice: A man will only value a woman to the same level or lower than she values herself.
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