7 Things To Consider Before Declaring He’s The One

People are usually on their best behavior when they first start dating someone. That’s the time in most relationships when we are having fun and thinking that he is the one.

Slow your roll. Before you jump into that giggly state, consider these things.

• Do you respect him? Do you admire how he handles other people, the way that he treats them and his outlook on life? When you truly respect someone, you want to be your best around him. You don’t want to lie to him or play games or take advantage of him in any way.

• He’s the one if he is your best friend. You can tell him anything. You feel confident enough to express your accomplishments as well as your weaknesses. You feel safe and you feel accepted as who you are.

• You are truly attracted to each other. That can wear off if it’s not real. If he is the one, the intimacy gets better over time, and it’s more about making each other happy than anything else.

• Do you have the same basic goals? He could be the love of your life if you operate on the same page when it comes to the important things, such as kids, finances (if he’s big spender and you are frugal – red flag!) and lifestyle.

• You are both willing to compromise on things, especially those that don’t really matter in the big picture. You both should have your way, not one having his or her way all the time.

• You are relaxed and feel safe, yet you are inspired to be the best that you can be. You understand your place in his life and don’t feel the need to prove your value all the time.

• You smile when you think about him. You are at work or on the subway, and he comes to mind, and suddenly nothing else matters except the love that you share.

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